Relationship
When we go into a relationship, when we marry someone, it's because they bring us so much happiness, they bring so much joy into our lives. When we fall in love, every other kind of happiness we've ever experienced might pale in comparisons so much so that we settle on this one thought this person makes me happy but that's not true , you made yourself happy you made the choice to allow yourself to open up to someone incredible you made the decision to commit to someone extremely connected to you made the choice to hang in there even that person had hurt you nobody can make us happy, we have always been the one who has brought happiness into our own lives . if you're feeling happy because you have great friends it's because you have chosen to surround yourself with genuine generous and loving people. If you feel happy if have a great family, it's because you have chosen to be consciously grateful for them. similarly no one can make us unhappy we have always been the only one our own happiness. because our reaction to circumstances that dictates whether we feel happy or not it's never what happens or who happened it's how we handle it it's also not who we have or don't have in our lives , because we cannot have a healthy relationship until we know that our happiness cannot be given to us by someone else , we don't expect people to lost weight for us , so why would we expect people to make us happy we've got to do it ourselves , it's perfectly normal to feel unhappy to feel affected by people and things but once we tuned our mind to the fact that our happiness is not out there somewhere else but in us we can easily let go and find our balance again , nobody can make us happy but you can always make yourself happy . Be happy , always !
